How it works

Five things happen here, in this order. None of them can be bought out of.

  1. 01

    Everyone verifies

    A phone number and one selfie, checked automatically. Usually under two minutes, with nobody reading it and nothing to upload.

    The selfie is deleted the moment the check finishes. We keep whether it passed, and that is all.

    Every profile here is a verified human. Two minutes, no waiting, no fakes.

  2. 02

    Three people a night

    Not a feed and not a deck. Three profiles, chosen for you, once a day — and then you are done.

    Everyone gets three. It does not grow if you pay, and there is no way to buy a fourth.

    If there are not many people near you, you get fewer and we say so, rather than filling the gap with profiles nobody has opened since March.

  3. 03

    A connect is a reply

    There is no swiping and no wave. To reach someone you answer one of the prompts on their profile, which means the first thing they read from you is about them.

    It also means saying something takes a minute, which is the point. Three a day on the free tier.

  4. 04

    Every chat has seven days

    Confirm a plan together and the timer disappears. Let it run out and the chat closes on its own, with a note, to both of you.

    You cannot buy more time and neither can anyone else. A timer you can pay to pause is not a deadline, it is a checkout.

    Every chat has 7 days to turn into a plan. If it doesn't, it closes kindly — for both of you. Nobody here gets left on read.

  5. 05

    Nothing ends in silence

    Declining a connect sends a note. Closing a chat sends a note. Running out of time sends a note. There is no button anywhere on this app that ends something quietly.

    You choose which note. You never choose whether.

  6. 06

    And you can step back

    Support-only mode takes you out of dating entirely and leaves every community room open. Leaving is instant; coming back takes thirty days, so the mode means something.

    Support-only mode hides you from all dating — no drops, no browse, and nobody can send you a connect. You can still join every room, and you can reach out to people you meet there whenever you're ready.